Worried about burnout? Check these five warning signs and get tips on how to take action.
1) I'm running a bit...well, a lot...late.
The issue: look at your personal time commitments for a pattern of frequently late arrivals, last-minute cancellations or simply not showing up.
Pull out your calendar and ask your friends and family to check your answers to these questions:
What you can do:
2) I'm stuck and I can't get out.
The issue: you feel swamped by the demands of your current role, yet unable to make a change.
Do any of these scenarios describe you?
What you can do:
Find a coach or mentor. Get help from someone who can work with you to take an objective look at your experience and qualifications, your situation and options at your current company and elsewhere.
Update your resume. Even if you don't plan to look for a new position, updating your accomplishments can be very empowering.
Discover how to change mental gears. Find ways to free your mind from a constant focus on work. For example, physical activity or exercise helps many people switch mental gears. Yardwork or doing something creative does the trick for others. And new ideas and possibilities often emerge during or after these periods.
Take real vacations - not just long weekends. And plan vacation activities that make it difficult, if not impossible, for your mind to drift back to everyday worries.
3) I can't believe they did that!
The issue: you spend most of your waking hours on work. And you spend most of the time with friends and family venting about work frustrations. If the conversation heads in a different direction, you usually bring it back to your work dissatisfaction.
You may also feel that you don't respect most of the people you work with, or that they don't share your values.
If you're in this situation, statements like these will sound familiar:
What you can do:
Consider whether you're in the right job. We often see these reactions when people are in jobs that are simply a poor fit for their temperaments, personalities, and preferences.
Venting may simply be a bad habit. Ask your friends and family to help you break it. For example, they can ask you "Is this really what you want to talk about?" whenever you head down the "gripe and moan" path.
Lead by example: start a good habit. Actively look for the positive in what others do - even if it seems like a small thing. Make it a point to smile and greet others cheerfully, even if your internal voice is a bit cynical or pessimistic. When others ask you how it's going, have an upbeat answer ready.
Evaluate your situation. When you first started this position, did you enjoy your workday and respect the company and your coworkers? Have they changed or have you changed? If they've changed - for example, new management or ownership, a high level of staff turnover, huge budget cuts - it may be time to look at other companies. If you've changed, switching companies may not help...at least, not for long.
4) Long time no see. Did I tell you about my new work project?
The issue: you've become one-dimensional. You have few personal interests or activities outside the workplace. If you lost your job tomorrow, you'd have a huge void with nothing to occupy your mental and creative energies.
What to watch for:
What you can do:
Build the habit of outside interests and interactions. Pick the first thing that comes to mind - whether it's an art class, going to a ballgame, lunch with non-work friends. Go ahead and take the next step, right now: sign up for the class, buy the ticket, set up the lunch. It doesn't have to be a lifelong interest. The key is to get started, and repeat every couple of weeks.
Start your conversations with a focus on the other person. Don't talk about yourself unless you've asked, say, three to five open-ended questions about what's going on with them.
Schedule true vacations - not just long weekends. The mental break'll do you good, and you also need time to actually DO something other than work.
Deliberately expand your horizons. Read, watch or do something you wouldn't normally make time for. At a loss? Check the event listings in your newspaper. Then, make it a point to tell someone else about it within 24-48 hours.
5) Why don't they love me?
The issue: you're pouring all your energies into your job. You feel that you're highly effective - more so than other people. Yet you feel underpaid, overlooked or otherwise underappreciated.
Typical examples:
What you can do:
Stick to your circle of influence. Worry only about what you can control. Turn your attention away from others' performance. Plan to improve and strengthen your own results.
Check your communication. You may be accomplishing miracles - but if no one knows, it doesn't count.
Ask for career guidance. With an open mind (that's the hard part!), ask for advice on how to improve your chances of promotion, more responsibility, or a raise. You may get specific advice - or you may find out that no raises are in the cards due to a tight budget.
Could YOU actually BE the problem? Sometimes folks who feel consistently overlooked aren't performing as well as they'd like to believe. It's a red flag if you find yourself blaming everyone else when you don't get what you want.
Did you successfully overcome burnout? Tell us how you did it!